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Re: Drazzil Mega Thread: Job Search!

Post by Drazzil » Fri Dec 21, 2018 12:33 pm



Chicken was great. Bacon on the top to keep it hydrated.
Low and slow with plenty of smoke!
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Re: Drazzil Mega Thread: Job Search!

Post by Drazzil » Fri Dec 21, 2018 12:45 pm

Isgrimnur wrote:
Thu Dec 20, 2018 11:34 pm
February 19th is the hospitality job fair. I'm sure that there will be opportunities there.

Also, you can probably get a job as a dishwasher and see about working your way up if you were so inclined.
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Post by Isgrimnur » Fri Dec 21, 2018 1:00 pm

You're welcome. I know what it's like to struggle to get your life and career 'started'. It's a hard road with a lot of ups and downs, but the payoff can be huge.

You've made some major strides to improve things, especially considering a lack of a strong family and friends safety net. Keep your eye on the prize and working toward what you want.

The path forward may not always be the one you want it to be, but persistence and humility will get you far. Recognize your strengths and be able to identify and work on your failings. Even when it requires asking for help, which is one of the hardest obstacles to overcome. No one succeeds alone.
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Re: Drazzil Mega Thread: Job Search!

Post by Drazzil » Fri Dec 21, 2018 2:26 pm

Isgrimnur wrote:
Fri Dec 21, 2018 1:00 pm
You're welcome. I know what it's like to struggle to get your life and career 'started'. It's a hard road with a lot of ups and downs, but the payoff can be huge.

You've made some major strides to improve things, especially considering a lack of a strong family and friends safety net. Keep your eye on the prize and working toward what you want.

The path forward may not always be the one you want it to be, but persistence and humility will get you far. Recognize your strengths and be able to identify and work on your failings. Even when it requires asking for help, which is one of the hardest obstacles to overcome. No one succeeds alone.
My biggest issue with starting at the bottom again as a dishwasher is I have shoulder that still needs rehabbing and restaruant work is hard and mostly pays sh-t, though. Maybe that's changed now.
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Re: Drazzil Mega Thread: Job Search!

Post by hitbyambulance » Fri Dec 21, 2018 11:39 pm

Isgrimnur wrote:
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Start making plans to spend January working on what you need when the companies come back in February.

Talk to the counselors about your resume, company research tactics, cover letters, etc.

And work on and test your interview skills.
i'm signing onto this thread, since i also need to do this. resume is done - i just need to send it out. and write a few cover letters, and then some more.

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Post by Zarathud » Sat Dec 22, 2018 12:34 pm

Drazzil wrote:My biggest issue with starting at the bottom again as a dishwasher is I have shoulder that still needs rehabbing and restaruant work is hard and mostly pays sh-t, though. Maybe that's changed now.
Maybe so, but no more excuses. Life can be hard. You're not in a place in your life you can expect not to work hard for shit pay. Suck it up buttercup.
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Post by Isgrimnur » Sat Dec 22, 2018 1:46 pm

If the people at the career center don’t recognize you on sight, you’re not going enough.
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Post by Zarathud » Sat Dec 22, 2018 2:24 pm

I graduated in the top 10% of my law school class, was working at a Big Accounting Firm, and STILL had to become well known to my placement center to get hired in my field.

The era of being entitled to a job after college was over before the Great Recession. You have to work to find work.

Your biggest issue is getting focused on finding work.
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Post by Drazzil » Sun Dec 23, 2018 8:07 pm

I thought I would go about talking in a very general fashion about the AA meetings I have been to.

The good gives me a chance to emulate their high standards. The bad gives me examples of what to avoid, and the ugly lets me say "Wow! there for the grace of god go I."

Now to your regularly scheduled programming.
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Post by Drazzil » Tue Dec 25, 2018 12:56 pm

Going to see her today.
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Post by Drazzil » Tue Dec 25, 2018 4:06 pm

I visited mom this morning. Read her the letter from her brother Frank, showed her cat pictures, then asked her how she was.

I noticed her roommate was gone, I asked mom about it, she said
"I'm glad shes gone!"
I asked "Why?"
Mom says: "She was still alive!"

I finished feeding her her pie, gave her a hug and a kiss and said:

"When you say shit like that it makes me not want to visit you as much"

She says: "I understand, then says "I love you always!"

I say: "I love you too, always!" then I hugged and kissed her and thanked my lucky stars that I no longer have to take care of her. Here's to a merry Christmas and her being someone elses problem.
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Re: Drazzil Mega Thread: Being broke sucks

Post by Drazzil » Mon Dec 31, 2018 2:38 pm

I gave up eating out. It was running me two bills a month I couldn't afford. Now I cook ALL my own food. Its not even the big stuff like going to buffets I miss the most, but going out once a week with my best friend to Chicken Pho, or getting chicken tacos every other day that I miss the most.

I am gradually losing all my bad habits. Smoking cigars is next on the list to go. Quitting smoking isin't that hard. I've downgraded to cigarettes lately. I only smoke those with my AA buddies so a single pack can last a week.

I'm going to go on the gum when I run out of cigars and this next pack runs out. Man being broke sucks.
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Post by Isgrimnur » Mon Dec 31, 2018 2:52 pm

CPP classes start on the 19th. Add/drop starts on Wednesday. Somewhere in there, the career center people will be back. Find out when, take them some cookies, and start making yourself a fixture.
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Post by Zarathud » Tue Jan 01, 2019 10:42 pm

You know how to stop being broke?

Find yourself a job. What have you done lately towards that goal?
Have you worked on your resume?
How about your attitude? Taking that "hate the world, let it burn" mindset unto a job interview is going to sink you.
Work your ass off. There is no magic pill.

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Re: Drazzil Mega Thread: Being broke SUUUCKS.

Post by dbt1949 » Tue Jan 01, 2019 10:48 pm

Yes, there is a magic pill. I have just one left.
It will cost $4999.
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Post by Drazzil » Wed Jan 02, 2019 7:13 pm

On the up side all the money I loaned out came back today...,huzzah!
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Re: Drazzil Mega Thread: Being broke SUUUCKS.

Post by Moliere » Tue Jan 08, 2019 12:25 am

Zarathud wrote:
Tue Jan 01, 2019 10:42 pm
You know how to stop being broke?

Find yourself a job. What have you done lately towards that goal?
Have you worked on your resume?
How about your attitude? Taking that "hate the world, let it burn" mindset unto a job interview is going to sink you.
Work your ass off. There is no magic pill.

Thanks for the motivational speech. It got me to sign up for Udemy's course for getting my PMI-ACP certification. :dance:
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Post by Kraken » Tue Jan 08, 2019 12:42 am

Motivation exhausts me.

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Re: Drazzil Mega Thread: Being broke SUUUCKS.

Post by dbt1949 » Tue Jan 08, 2019 2:06 pm

For me motivation comes of necessity not because I really want it.
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Post by Isgrimnur » Fri Jan 18, 2019 10:50 am

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Re: Drazzil Mega Thread: Being broke SUUUCKS.

Post by Zarathud » Fri Jan 18, 2019 11:49 am

Looks like the magic pill broke him.
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