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Re: So.....my dad died

Post by Jeff V » Wed Jan 09, 2019 10:27 am

My condolences RW, sounds like your dad was quite an admirable person and role model. I'm sure you made him proud too...keep carrying on his legacy.

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Re: So.....my dad died

Post by Alefroth » Wed Jan 09, 2019 2:40 pm

So sorry to hear that Remus. Hope you are able to honor his life and find some peace.

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Re: So.....my dad died

Post by gbasden » Wed Jan 09, 2019 7:08 pm

I'm really sorry. I just lost my father this fall, and he was a wonderful man. Now my mom is at the hospital for a possible fractured hip. I feel you for sure.

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Re: So.....my dad died

Post by Holman » Wed Jan 09, 2019 7:33 pm

I'm so sorry for your loss, Remus.
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Re: So.....my dad died

Post by Remus West » Fri Jan 11, 2019 2:42 pm

Yesterday a friend of my father's from my youth who had a stroke in 2012 sent a letter my dad wrote to him shortly after wishing him a swift recovery. His friend said he had kept it in his bedside drawer for the 6 year since but thought he should share it with Dad's children. In the letter Dad spoke of how the two of them may be past their primes but should still be so proud of the children they raised and what wonderful people all their children were. I'm not going to quote the whole letter (or even do more than the paraphrasing I already did) but it felt so good and horribel at the same time to read it. It felt amazing to see my dad expressing his pride in my sisters and myself but it reopened unhealed wounds of his loss. This sucks.
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Re: So.....my dad died

Post by Daehawk » Fri Jan 11, 2019 6:32 pm

I understand RW. On close losses there seems to be no relief. And if you do get some its fast and then makes you feel bad. At least with me right now.

Im very sorry for your loss is never enough words is it? It is nice and kind and appreciated....but nothing helps.

I wish anyone going through loss better days sooner than later.
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