Paingod wrote: ↑Tue Feb 12, 2019 12:30 pm
I've never "dated" - I've only ever gone out with people I knew one way or another and a relationship formed on top of an existing dynamic.
Yes, this is part of my problem.
NoxiousDog: No offense taken! I guess I feel like I know myself better than others, but then again, maybe I'm just as opaque. I try to be transparent as possible since I don't want anyone hurt.
Jaymann: Yes, nothing is more irritating that being direct and asking what's the problem and getting a "Nothing" even though you know damn well something is wrong.
Right now, if I had to be honest with myself, I'd like a FWB. I'm still trying to get my new, little house in order, adjusting to having my kids on/off each week, and adjusting to my new reality. I need to be a little self-centered right now to prioritize. Unfortunately, it seems to make me look like a "typical male".