Been thinking about this for the last couple of days, and decided I'd post it here as well as on facebook. Not meant to reflect on anyone in particular.
Various and sundry recent issues have prompted me to reflect on the way that we (and that "we" is meant to include me and any one of you reading this) discuss politically divisive issues, or any other type of issue in which there is the possibility of serious disagreement.
Discussions of these issues tend to fall into two rather different types. Type one, which I will call "preaching to the choir" is when we assume that those reading or hearing our words are of much the same opinion as we are. This seems innocuous in itself. After all, aren't our friends people a lot like us? Of course in many cases this is true. Whetever the issue is, it's likely that a lot of your friends hold to the same opinion you do. This type of discussion can be useful fo trying to rally people to action: "our candidate for office may very well be defeated unless we all turn out on election day", etc.
There are a couple of problems, though, with this sort of rhetoric. One is that it has a tendency towards being sloppy about particulars. If we are all agreed about our issue, then surely small details of the discussion can be overlooked or forgiven, right? The second problem, which I consider of more importance, is that it inherently marginalizes or alienates those who are of a different point of view.I should point out that this is nearly always an unintended result, but it is one I have observed with some frequency.
The other sort of rhetoric is one I will call "preaching to your enemies". This sort of rhetoic is extremely rare, and for good reason. First, it involves speaking specifically towards those who who to an opinion you don't care for. For example, in his now forgotten book, Race and the Renewal of the Church, Will Campbell argued that if the church wants to deal rightly with the issue of racism, then we need to be having conversations with racists. Second, it requires much more care in presentation and research. When debating with people on the opposite side of an emotional issue, they will be sure to point out any errors of fact or logic.
The advantages, though, to this sort of rhetoric are manifold. First, it will cause you to understand the issue you are talking about much more deeply. If it is an issue of importance, then this can only be a good thing. Second, you stand the possibility of winning over someone who had been opposed to you. Third, even if you cannot win over your opponents, you will gain much more respect in their eyes by engaging in a more reasoned and listening way. And finally, you also open up he possibility of finding out that you may have been wrong yourself all along. I know that has happened to me in many cases
