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The mods started these boards, and I bet the boards will be paid for first out of their pockets, whatever other means of support they find. Their house, their rules.

That said, I'll bet they will consider (if not agree with) some input on the Code of Conduct.

Just a few thoughts:

1. I approve of the no nudie pictures policy. Many people like to surf from work. They don't want to get into trouble. At the very least, there should be a policy of no nudity without a NSFW heading on the thread. (In fact, I'm no prude, but there's a fairly wide range of cheesecake shots that I think merit a NSFW heading on the thread).

2. This may be controversial, but I think it would be worthwhile to make announcements (in this forum, I guess) of suspensions and bannings. Part of a system of rules is deterrence, and when rules are necessarily and inherently subject to different interpretations, it helps to see how those in authority will apply them. Even if mods are not comfortable "calling out" people by announcing here that they have been banned/suspended/reprimanded, I suggest a sticky thread (open to mods only) that quotes posts that resulted in punishment. Those posts could be edited to redact identifying names, but the text would be there for people to see what kind of conduct is not acceptable. I recognize that there is a danger of a looking-at-the-car-wreck fascination with this, but I think it would help people see what is acceptable and what is not.

3. I demand that any person who argues that his "right to free speech" is being violated by application of forum rules have the First Amendment branded on his ass.
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Post by Grifman »

Good ideas and I support them all - especially the branding part :)

I'll go perhaps a bit further, but I'd like to maintain the same CoC and level of moderation as the old site. I'm of course only one person, but that's my opinion FWIW.

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Post by ImLawBoy »

I fully agree with NSFWs, and we're talking about ways to encourage their use more strongly - not just through a new CoC, but even the possibility of mandating that they be used and/or not allowing the "random" cheescake pics that sometimes pop up in a thread unless the original poster adds a NSFW to it. That last one is probably hard to enforce, though, so we'll probalby just try to encourage it, and rely on the good nature of the posters.

The second is a tough one. Deterrence is important, and people need to know that actions have consequences. That said, when we banned a certain game developer at GG, we didn't want to post publicly about it, because we didn't want to encourage the type of behavior shown by some posters - namely, specific attempts to get that person to blow up and get himself banned. That's why we kind of played it by ear in the past with how bannings were announced (if they were announced at all).

Posting specific quotes is an idea I like even less than announcing all bannings. First, there are some things that cause bannings that we probably don't want to repeat, much less in an official thread. Second, it fails to capture those whose bannings are of a cumulative nature. The final straw that breaks the camel's back may not seem particularly banworthy, but given a poster's history, we may feel it's justified overall.

As for the third one, ass tattooing is a nice idea, but I think it would be more effective to tattoo it all backwards-like on the person's forehead so that they could read it in the mirror.
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Post by Peacedog »

We were actually working to overhaul the CoC back at GG. We'd gotten to an area we felt comfortable with, but since we're thinking we're going to revisit some policies it needs work again. And I think we'll display it for critique at some point. All that said. . .
1. I approve of the no nudie pictures policy. Many people like to surf from work. They don't want to get into trouble. At the very least, there should be a policy of no nudity without a NSFW heading on the thread. (In fact, I'm no prude, but there's a fairly wide range of cheesecake shots that I think merit a NSFW heading on the thread).
Ken's right, though I should say the policy might be repealed to a degree. If it is, we most certainly will be more aggresive with NSFWs.

One thing to remember is that with something like that, the impact you guys can have (I hate to speak of us separately like this, but here I go) can be tremendous. Getting upset with someone who screws up won't do you any good. A kind but firm "that's not how we do things here" can be great. I doubt NSFW errors will be a huge problem to start (maybe for a short period of pic policy changes), but they may start to be as new people come in (remember, no matter how well written the CoC, only 20% of the incoming people ever bother to glance at it before posting). If all of you are working hard to get NSFW errors in proper places, and avoid "drive by" picture postings when they're inappropriate, it makes it much easier to teach then n00bs.

Now, I said we may go laxer on what's allowed (and note: that does not necessarily translate into postable pics), but it isn't set in stone (and please don't get upset and run off before arguing for a side at least). If we do, it will be especially beneficial if we can have everyone discourag certain kinds of behavior (drive bys, for example. Poor Ms Cuthbert was badly abused in this regard).

I'm not even remotely prudish, but I also understand there are pictures that are acceptable, but you don't want your boss to see them on your monitor necessarily. And I think NSFW is a good thing. Though I think for some it has come to mean "potentially inappropriate material - for work, family, friends" not just "Not Safe For Work". I think NSFW is catchy, but that's something else to think about.

Grifman, we're aiming for the same feel. We might be tightening a bit in some areas, relaxing in others (nocd cracks, to use an example).

On point two: to continue with what Ken said, we did announce a few bannins of a certain Game Developer's groupies, because it was a type of behavior that was pretty unique, and we needed to get the message out. Food for thought. Though Ken raises other good points. It generaly takes some cumulative effort combined with some pretty harsh stuff to get booted (temporary or permanent). Maybe we can find a way to give people less leeway to a degree, but not need to act officially as much? Is there some sort of spell that does that?

Point three: I'm on board. ;)
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Post by Odin »

I don't mind a nice boob-shot once in a while, as long as it's clearly marked NSFW in the thread title. For that matter, I don't mind full-body either, but I can see why people would and I don't need to come here to find it.

I actually thought it felt more "professional" when somebody objectionable just disappeared for a while (or forever). Everybody figured out what had happened to them and got the message, but it didn't need to be trumpeted to the heavens. Even moreso, I think repeating something that got somebody banned in the first place just draws even more attention to it. I wouldn't favor that approach.

As for #3, I've always been partial to a good ol'fashioned horse-whipping, but that's me.

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Post by Ronin »

Crucifiction is a good deterrent.
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Ronin wrote:Crucifiction is a good deterrent.
Dunno. Didn't stop the christians.
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Sith Lord wrote:
Ronin wrote:Crucifiction is a good deterrent.
Dunno. Didn't stop the christians.
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Post by Napoleon »

I agree with Mr. Fed on everything, ESPECIALLY on the making bannings public.

Moderation needs to be transparent for the people who are being moderated, IMHO.
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Post by Lorini »

Being that the nudes will almost certainly be all women and no men, I vote against nudes, but I think I'm outnumbered here :cry:

I had no idea what NSFW meant until Peacedog finally explained it. Not everyone knows these acronyms, and I could be literally fired for showing a nude pic on a work monitor (I work as a government contractor). I think it's too dangerous, and there's lots of places on the net to see nudes, but again I'm sure I'm in the minority again.

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specific attempts to get that person to blow up and get himself banned.
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Post by CeeKay »

CSL wrote:
Sith Lord wrote:
Ronin wrote:Crucifiction is a good deterrent.
Dunno. Didn't stop the christians.
Pesky bastards
didn't stop that christ guy either ;)
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Sure it did. Who knew he'd get resurrected?
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Dirt wrote:Sure it did. Who knew he'd get resurrected?
You just can't keep a good deity down.
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Sith Lord wrote:
Dirt wrote:Sure it did. Who knew he'd get resurrected?
You just can't keep a good deity down.
You can if you nail him there.
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Post by LordMortis »

You just can't keep a good deity down.
And that's good too, I guess. As long as you protest that god is not a woman, I'd have have a problem with anyone with a bearded face going down. [shivers]
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Post by Asharak »

Trying to get this thread back on topic (and save it from God; how ironic), I'd like to throw my exchange-rate-reduced two cents behind the idea of public, transparent moderation.

ILB said posting bannings wouldn't necessarily convey the reason for the banning, especially ones for cumulative offences. I disagree. Whether or not quotes were used, a single sentence from the Powers That Be for each banning would be quite sufficient. For example, "Poster X was banned for a single, egregious violation of the no-nudity rule", or "Poster Y was banned for 6 months for repeated infractions of the respectful-tone rule after repeated warnings within the forum and two private e-mails".

One sentence in either case, and the reason for and methodology behind both bannings is abundantly clear.

The bottom line to me is this: until the CoC becomes an explicit, 100% implication- and connotation-free document (i.e., "the following list of words is not allowed on the forums...", versus more broadly stating "deliberately disrespectful language is not allowed"), the enforcement of it needs to be transparent. In other words, unless the document itself can be said to be perfectly transparent, unarguable, and not open to any interpretation whatsoever, then the prevailing and enforced interpretation needs to be made public.

I think my biggest (and it was still relatively small) beef with the moderation of GG was the tendency of the Mods to admit that each one of them had different interpretations of the rules and how and when to enforce them. While I understand that this is inevitable to some extent, it should be actively minimized. After all, if "we the people" are to be expected to conform to a single standard, then so should those enforcing it. By analogy, the police don't have four different definitions of break and enter that might be applied depending on which squad car arrives on the scene.

Publication of bannings/warnings/etc. would help reduce those sorts of incidents, in my view: it would encourage the Mods to talk to each other about each decision, with a consensus eventually evolving (hopefully).

Anyway, this two cents is getting rather long, I have to get to work. Hope some of that made sense somewhere. ;)

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Asharak wrote:In other words, unless the document itself can be said to be perfectly transparent, unarguable, and not open to any interpretation whatsoever, then the prevailing and enforced interpretation needs to be made public.
I totally agree with this. :)

A CoC that is "clearly ambiguous" can be easily exploited and then when the time comes to ban someone, there is always argument as to why. For example, if you had a rule against threadjacking that just read "try to stay on-topic," you couldn't just outright ban the christian bashers that posted here earlier. :?
Asharak wrote:I think my biggest (and it was still relatively small) beef with the moderation of GG was the tendency of the Mods to admit that each one of them had different interpretations of the rules and how and when to enforce them.
This I disagree with. :)

I think having a relatively "common-sense" CoC and at the same time allow Mods to enforce on subjective whim adds "noir and mystique" to a forum. :?
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Post by Lassr »

Steering away from the current topic of nudes in this post, one change I'd love to see is allowing the posting of prices when selling in the trade forum.
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Post by setaside »

Lassr wrote:Steering away from the current topic of nudes in this post, one change I'd love to see is allowing the posting of prices when selling in the trade forum.
This one is on the "likely" list of things to happen.
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Post by ChrisGrenard »

I honestly feel that since we are independant now, we are going to see a lot of good changes to the CoC. Things that seemed arbituary before will probably be fixed and whatnot. This is most excellent for the entire forum, I think.
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ChrisGrenard wrote:I honestly feel that since we are independant now, we are going to see a lot of good changes to the CoC. Things that seemed arbituary before will probably be fixed and whatnot. This is most excellent for the entire forum, I think.
But just to be safe, you should probably clearly spell out a list of things you thought were "aribitrary" so that we can be sure to revisit those things. Can't hurt nuthin'.

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Post by Eel Snave »

The spelling is "arbitrary." Geez! :D

Sometimes, hate speech or anger would be allowed, almost. It's like, in one thread, people would be getting mean with each other or on certain topics (i.e. Christian-bashing or politics) and no one would lift a finger. However, in another thread that has a different tone, warnings would get thrown around for much milder offenses. I noticed that a bit. It never bothered me terribly, but it's kind of an example of the arbitrariness that my esteemed colleague Mr. Grenard is referring to.

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Post by The Meal »

Most of my spelling mistakes are of the honest-to-goodness Neal-doesn't-know-any-better variety. That one was actually a mere typo. Small victories...

Thanks for the point-out on that sort of thing, Lee.

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Post by Mandeville »

This is like starting a new country.

I think the the CoC should be well spelled out and posted in a place that we all can find.

I also believe that the CoC should have more flexability and not restrict the TYPE of speech presented on this board, but rather the TONE. It is very easy to say that respect is the watchword.

Maybe we could have a commity that would review real trouble spots. It would also be romoved from the mods so that there is no claim of a fixed race. It would be like the General Assembly to the Security Council.
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Post by CeeKay »

I say we add in:

Each mod gets 2 goats and a virgin once a year.

The head mod gets a temple constructed in his/her name.

Polka dot speedos we all must wear while surfing the forums w/ web cams to back this up (monitored by ImLawBoy of course).


Oh, you mean serious suggestions.... well

nonudiepicsinthreadsnotlabledNSFWpublicnotice ofbanningspeelcheckerwouldbenicenosecuritycouncilliketheUNwhichisuselessanywaysGrenardisasuckupandnoautoerotica

<gasp>

that is all.
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Post by Eel Snave »

I hope that didn't sound asshole-y. It's just that EVERYONE was misspelling it! Gah! If it was asshole-y, here's an asshole: :idea:
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Post by Asharak »

Was I the only person foolish enough to actually spend 30 seconds trying to decipher CeeKay's, um, word?

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Asharak wrote:Was I the only person foolish enough to actually spend 30 seconds trying to decipher CeeKay's, um, word?

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