Intersectionality of Privilege
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Intersectionality of Privilege
Later this week my company is having an intersectionality symposium and as one of the more well known members of our Allies group, I will be attending. They have given us a template for a background to show our own identities. There are three spaces. I am trying to think of three things to put in there that are more personal and meaningful, without seeming like a joke or counter to the intent.
The obvious surface things are: White, Male, Straight which is all true, but are all privileged identities.
Other things I am thinking of, off the top of my head: Atheist, Introvert, Parent
I also thought about Gamer, but that has become more mainstream. Is there a better modern word for teetotaler? I haven't had alcohol in more than 5 years just as a personal choice.
I'm pretty likely not neurotypical, but I've never had anything diagnosed, so I don't want to make any claims there.
I know you all don't personally know me that well, even those I've spent more than a few days with, but just looking for thoughts and discussion around this.
The obvious surface things are: White, Male, Straight which is all true, but are all privileged identities.
Other things I am thinking of, off the top of my head: Atheist, Introvert, Parent
I also thought about Gamer, but that has become more mainstream. Is there a better modern word for teetotaler? I haven't had alcohol in more than 5 years just as a personal choice.
I'm pretty likely not neurotypical, but I've never had anything diagnosed, so I don't want to make any claims there.
I know you all don't personally know me that well, even those I've spent more than a few days with, but just looking for thoughts and discussion around this.
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aloof (which might be a projection to describe me actually. ) ... and probably not the best way to be featured on "intersectionality"
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coopasonic wrote: ↑Tue Jul 23, 2019 5:22 pmComputer Programmer, Board Gamer, Video Gamer, Runner, Father, Husband, Tesla Enthusiast, Sarcastic, Anxious, Lazy, Early Riser, Unsympathetic, Critical... I think that about sums it up. I'm sure there are other words that can be used to define me, but I think that mostly covers it.
When we were young the term was straight edge but it did not come without a certain baggage.Is there a better modern word for teetotaler?
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Do they give any examples? Would help to have a sense of what they have in mind. I would think that this would involve stuff that would impact people's immediate reaction to you / perception of you, which would I think be more along the lines of white & male & religion (so atheist seems relevant).
Also, does Texas still allow companies based there to have allies groups and intersectionality conferences? Seems awfully socialist and woke to me.
Also, does Texas still allow companies based there to have allies groups and intersectionality conferences? Seems awfully socialist and woke to me.
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How do you feel about punk?coopasonic wrote: ↑Wed Jan 19, 2022 3:47 pm
I also thought about Gamer, but that has become more mainstream. Is there a better modern word for teetotaler? I haven't had alcohol in more than 5 years just as a personal choice.
Physical traits are usually good bets. Very tall, short, large, skinny, bad eyesight, bad hearing...
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Examples were what you more typically think of with respect to identity, Gay, Black, Woman, Parent, etc
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As another white, hetero middle-aged man I think I'd be hesitant to put anything on the labels that would in any way seem like I was trying to compete with or minimize the labels others are going to be using. I guess I'd be concerned that someone would think I was trying to come up with something to distract from my glaringly obvious VIP status. Case in point, I give a lecture ever semester on diversity, which I am quick to point out is the height of irony and I don't want the information to seem disingenuous just because of who I am.
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But that kind of is your identity, so isn't it disingenuous to hide from it. Isn't the point to acknowledge and embrace who you are.coopasonic wrote: ↑Wed Jan 19, 2022 7:15 pmExamples were what you more typically think of with respect to identity, Gay, Black, Woman, Parent, etc
You could also say you are a GenX. I guess that's considered privileged too from what I hear. We do have our own set of issues.
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This even t is run by the Allies org so there is a lot of privilege and its understood. I don't think it would be taken in a negative manner, but that's really why I am asking for input.Smoove_B wrote: ↑Wed Jan 19, 2022 7:24 pm As another white, hetero middle-aged man I think I'd be hesitant to put anything on the labels that would in any way seem like I was trying to compete with or minimize the labels others are going to be using. I guess I'd be concerned that someone would think I was trying to come up with something to distract from my glaringly obvious VIP status. Case in point, I give a lecture ever semester on diversity, which I am quick to point out is the height of irony and I don't want the information to seem disingenuous just because of who I am.
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Yes. It is and yes, I have a very privileged identity. I just don't know that it is worth calling out the obvious.Jag wrote: ↑Wed Jan 19, 2022 7:34 pmBut that kind of is your identity, so isn't it disingenuous to hide from it. Isn't the point to acknowledge and embrace who you are.coopasonic wrote: ↑Wed Jan 19, 2022 7:15 pmExamples were what you more typically think of with respect to identity, Gay, Black, Woman, Parent, etc
You could also say you are a GenX. I guess that's considered privileged too from what I hear. We do have our own set of issues.
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This is a new term to me. I could easily see getting myself in trouble with it.
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The only people I know who self-identify as "sober" are recovering alcoholics or substance abusers. I'd steer clear of that as a synonym for teetotaller unless that's actually what you're going for.
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The goal is to establish your identities. What you identify with, rather than stereotypes. Programmer and atheist would seem true. It’s like naming a preferred pronoun.
Non-drinker would be appropriate for a something the audience might not guess, but it’s behavior not an assumption. Personally I would say Chinese while looking like a nice Jewish lawyer. Which I’m not, just influenced by friends who were Jewish.
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This.
You (and I) have benefited from structural inequality even where we weren't aware of it. You don't have to flagellate yourself for it, but it's good for everyone if those of us in this advantaged position recognize that not everyone has been in this advantaged position.
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I've been thinking about this for hours and the best I could come up with (that I still wouldn't use) is being left-handed. It's absolutely part of my identity and it's undoubtedly influenced any number of things about me, namely related to a general difficulty in doing many things 90% of the population takes for granted. But I wouldn't list being left-handed on my label for this event because I wouldn't want to suggest to someone that my inability to find a pair of left-handed scissors as a kid means I now need to use right handed scissors all the time is anything like being a Black woman in corporate America (in my imagination - I have no idea what it's like, but I'm guessing it's not great in many places).
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This is what I hate about this stuff - all the second guessing about how what you say is going to be taken, as noted in this post and others. If you have to second guess everything you say, therein lies madness. I have no problem being sensitive towards people - and we should be - but to me, at some point this gets to be crazy. If you can't be authentic about who you think you are, then what's the point?Smoove_B wrote: ↑Wed Jan 19, 2022 10:52 pm I've been thinking about this for hours and the best I could come up with (that I still wouldn't use) is being left-handed. It's absolutely part of my identity and it's undoubtedly influenced any number of things about me, namely related to a general difficulty in doing many things 90% of the population takes for granted. But I wouldn't list being left-handed on my label for this event because I wouldn't want to suggest to someone that my inability to find a pair of left-handed scissors as a kid means I now need to use right handed scissors all the time is anything like being a Black woman in corporate America (in my imagination - I have no idea what it's like, but I'm guessing it's not great in many places).
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It's the window johari's window of how you see yourself. How do you identify? Call yourself Sis, male, geek, runner, non drinker, programmer, killjoy, video gamer, whatever you see yourself as.
In the window I see you as, you talk mostly about gaming with your kid and managing your team at work (and much more pleasant than talking how you talk about when you seemed much less happy). So from my window, it's video gaming, program managing, parent but it's not about me identifying you. It's about you identifying yourself.
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There's a reason I have worked at this same place as a programmer for 20 years when I could have easily made more money bouncing around. I've found a place that was inclusive before that term was mainstream. A place that genuinely seems to care about individuals health, happiness and success. Now that I am in leadership, I am even more convinced. Yes, I came into this role in the height of DIB, but I've seen echoes of the same efforts for as long as I have been here.Grifman wrote: ↑Thu Jan 20, 2022 12:47 amThis is what I hate about this stuff - all the second guessing about how what you say is going to be taken, as noted in this post and others. If you have to second guess everything you say, therein lies madness. I have no problem being sensitive towards people - and we should be - but to me, at some point this gets to be crazy. If you can't be authentic about who you think you are, then what's the point?Smoove_B wrote: ↑Wed Jan 19, 2022 10:52 pm I've been thinking about this for hours and the best I could come up with (that I still wouldn't use) is being left-handed. It's absolutely part of my identity and it's undoubtedly influenced any number of things about me, namely related to a general difficulty in doing many things 90% of the population takes for granted. But I wouldn't list being left-handed on my label for this event because I wouldn't want to suggest to someone that my inability to find a pair of left-handed scissors as a kid means I now need to use right handed scissors all the time is anything like being a Black woman in corporate America (in my imagination - I have no idea what it's like, but I'm guessing it's not great in many places).
Thinking about it more this morning, I am thinking of something like this:
Introvert Privileged
Atheist White
Non-Drinker Male
Yeah it still feels like a call for attention where I shouldn't be the focus, but it is also an acknowledgement of my position.
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I can be authentic about being a left-handed gamer. I would never want to suggest to anyone that it has impacted my career or my ability to earn money in any capacity.
I think acknowledgement is important and my sense is that when it is genuinely acknowledged, it is appreciated. I try to be aware of this at all times, especially in my current position where (not surprisingly) white/male is overwhelming dominant.coop wrote:Yeah it still feels like a call for attention where I shouldn't be the focus, but it is also an acknowledgement of my position.
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That's the point of the exercise. It's to make you uncomfortable and understand why.Grifman wrote: ↑Thu Jan 20, 2022 12:47 amThis is what I hate about this stuff - all the second guessing about how what you say is going to be taken, as noted in this post and others. If you have to second guess everything you say, therein lies madness. I have no problem being sensitive towards people - and we should be - but to me, at some point this gets to be crazy. If you can't be authentic about who you think you are, then what's the point?Smoove_B wrote: ↑Wed Jan 19, 2022 10:52 pm I've been thinking about this for hours and the best I could come up with (that I still wouldn't use) is being left-handed. It's absolutely part of my identity and it's undoubtedly influenced any number of things about me, namely related to a general difficulty in doing many things 90% of the population takes for granted. But I wouldn't list being left-handed on my label for this event because I wouldn't want to suggest to someone that my inability to find a pair of left-handed scissors as a kid means I now need to use right handed scissors all the time is anything like being a Black woman in corporate America (in my imagination - I have no idea what it's like, but I'm guessing it's not great in many places).
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In addition to being a straight white male, I also have the pleasure of being of basically average height and pretty close to optimal (BMI-wise) weight. I guess I could go with "four-eyes" but it's not even bad enough that I actually need to wear glasses in most cases. From a purely physical standpoint, ginger would probably be where I stand out the most, but even that, I think, works to my advantage.LawBeefaroni wrote: ↑Wed Jan 19, 2022 5:45 pmHow do you feel about punk?coopasonic wrote: ↑Wed Jan 19, 2022 3:47 pm
I also thought about Gamer, but that has become more mainstream. Is there a better modern word for teetotaler? I haven't had alcohol in more than 5 years just as a personal choice.
Physical traits are usually good bets. Very tall, short, large, skinny, bad eyesight, bad hearing...
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That’s weird, where did anyone in this thread ever claim that?
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Why should I feel uncomfortable about who/what I am? If I am a straight white male, why should I feel uncomfortable with that? I didn’t choose any of those physical characteristics. I shouldn’t benoxiousdog wrote: ↑Thu Jan 20, 2022 11:28 am
That's the point of the exercise. It's to make you uncomfortable and understand why.
uncomfortable being who I am any more than any minority person should be. Aware of inequities, past and present, sure. Seek to address inequities, most certainly. Being uncomfortable with who I am - crazy.
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How about reframing it as being uncomfortable with the situation and circumstances you find yourself in as a result of who you are?Grifman wrote: ↑Thu Jan 20, 2022 4:47 pmWhy should I feel uncomfortable about who/what I am? If I am a straight white male, why should I feel uncomfortable with that? I didn’t choose any of those physical characteristics. I shouldn’t benoxiousdog wrote: ↑Thu Jan 20, 2022 11:28 am
That's the point of the exercise. It's to make you uncomfortable and understand why.
uncomfortable being who I am any more than any minority person should be. Aware of inequities, past and present, sure. Seek to address inequities, most certainly. Being uncomfortable with who I am - crazy.
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I don't think uncomfortable is the right word. Finding or identifying ways in which you are or could be marginalized or othered, can open your eyes to the way others are treated and why that happens.
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Unless I misunderstand this event, it's about getting people to recognize and see inherent privilege and/or bias in the workplace. In other words, its forcing people to think about how they look at others vs how others see themselves and what that might mean for their interactions.
If you think your status as a white male hasn't afforded you all kinds of advantages in life, then I guess that's where there's some confusion. I am firmly in the Louis CK frame of mind with this.
Here's how great it is to be white: I can get in a time machine and go to any time, and it would be fucking awesome when I get there! That is exclusively a white privilege.
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Gotta say I was off on this according to wiki. I didn't see it about marginalization and empowerment but that is specifically what it is. I just assumed it was about the intersection of how one sees themselves vs how others see them but I was way off.
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersectionality
So they are looking for straight white irreligious tall middle aged lower middle class fat divorced childless man in exceptionally poor healthntersectionality is an analytical framework for understanding how aspects of a person's social and political identities combine to create different modes of discrimination and privilege. The term was coined by Kimberlé Williams Crenshaw in 1989.[1]: 385 Intersectionality identifies multiple factors of advantage and disadvantage.[2] Examples of these factors include gender, caste, sex, race, ethnicity, class, sexuality, religion, disability, weight, physical appearance,[3][4] and height.[5] These intersecting and overlapping social identities may be both empowering and oppressing.[6][7]
Intersectionality broadens the lens of the first and second waves of feminism, which largely focused on the experiences of women who were both white and middle-class, to include the different experiences of women of color, women who are poor, immigrant women, and other groups. Intersectional feminism aims to separate itself from white feminism by acknowledging women's different experiences and identities.[8]
Intersectionality is a qualitative analytic framework developed in the late 20th century that identifies how interlocking systems of power affect those who are most marginalized in society.[1][page range too broad] Activists use the framework to promote social and political egalitarianism.[8] Intersectionality opposes analytical systems that treat each axis of oppression in isolation, as if discrimination against black women could be explained as simply misogyny or simply racism.[9] For example, Crenshaw has pointed to the 1976 case DeGraffenreid v. General Motors, in which the plaintiffs alleged hiring practices that specifically discriminated against black women and that could not be described as either racial discrimination or sex discrimination alone.[10][11]: 141–143 Intersectionality engages in similar themes as triple oppression, which is the oppression associated with being a poor and/or immigrant woman of color. Intersectional analysis aligns very closely with anarcha-feminist power analysis frameworks.
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You shouldn't, and yet we all have some insecurities.Grifman wrote: ↑Thu Jan 20, 2022 4:47 pmWhy should I feel uncomfortable about who/what I am? If I am a straight white male, why should I feel uncomfortable with that? I didn’t choose any of those physical characteristics. I shouldn’t benoxiousdog wrote: ↑Thu Jan 20, 2022 11:28 am
That's the point of the exercise. It's to make you uncomfortable and understand why.
uncomfortable being who I am any more than any minority person should be. Aware of inequities, past and present, sure. Seek to address inequities, most certainly. Being uncomfortable with who I am - crazy.
By understanding that how we feel about our own insecurities you can think about how you may affect others positively and negatively about theirs. Especially when it's a core physical trait upon which they have little influence.
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Maybe I misunderstand you, but it's not about insecurities. It's about the very real differences in life experiences based on traits no one can control.noxiousdog wrote: ↑Thu Jan 20, 2022 5:10 pmYou shouldn't, and yet we all have some insecurities.Grifman wrote: ↑Thu Jan 20, 2022 4:47 pmWhy should I feel uncomfortable about who/what I am? If I am a straight white male, why should I feel uncomfortable with that? I didn’t choose any of those physical characteristics. I shouldn’t benoxiousdog wrote: ↑Thu Jan 20, 2022 11:28 am
That's the point of the exercise. It's to make you uncomfortable and understand why.
uncomfortable being who I am any more than any minority person should be. Aware of inequities, past and present, sure. Seek to address inequities, most certainly. Being uncomfortable with who I am - crazy.
By understanding that how we feel about our own insecurities you can think about how you may affect others positively and negatively about theirs. Especially when it's a core physical trait upon which they have little influence.
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I think being uncomfortable is a common outcome for people on the privileged end of the spectrum after learning about these topics.coopasonic wrote: ↑Thu Jan 20, 2022 4:59 pm I don't think uncomfortable is the right word. Finding or identifying ways in which you are or could be marginalized or othered, can open your eyes to the way others are treated and why that happens.
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- coopasonic
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Re: Intersectionality of Privilege
Yes, uncomfortable is probably an appropriate response, but it isn't the goal.
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- stessier
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Re: Intersectionality of Privilege
Fair.coopasonic wrote: ↑Thu Jan 20, 2022 5:52 pm Yes, uncomfortable is probably an appropriate response, but it isn't the goal.
I require a reminder as to why raining arcane destruction is not an appropriate response to all of life's indignities. - Vaarsuvius
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- noxiousdog
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Re: Intersectionality of Privilege
I know. And by thinking about how your particular life experiences based on traits you can't control... especially minor ones .. have affected you personally lets you empathize with with other peoples' situation who have to deal with it in a much more major way.
It's not that it -should- make you uncomfortable; it's that it does.
Black Lives Matter
"To wield Grond, the mighty hammer of the Federal Government, is to be intoxicated with power beyond what you and I can reckon (though I figure we can ball park it pretty good with computers and maths). Need to tunnel through a mountain? Grond. Kill a mighty ogre? Grond. Hangnail? Grond. Spider? Grond (actually, that's a legit use, moreso than the rest)." - Peacedog
"To wield Grond, the mighty hammer of the Federal Government, is to be intoxicated with power beyond what you and I can reckon (though I figure we can ball park it pretty good with computers and maths). Need to tunnel through a mountain? Grond. Kill a mighty ogre? Grond. Hangnail? Grond. Spider? Grond (actually, that's a legit use, moreso than the rest)." - Peacedog
- Anonymous Bosch
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Re: Intersectionality of Privilege
Personally, I would suggest taking this as a challenge to cook up suitably florid tales worthy of Baron Munchausen, e.g.
- How your flirtation with the Duchess of Daventry led to your bold discovery of the Crown Jewels of Sweden, hidden inside a live cow.
- How you recognised a sheep as the long-lost second son of the Earl of Pucklechurch, and helped effect his escape from bandits on half a horse.
- How you convinced the Bishop of Boddlington to boil his beard, and classify his moustache as a potent herb at Kew Gardens.
"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." — P. J. O'Rourke
- coopasonic
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Re: Intersectionality of Privilege
It turns out the effort was largely pointless as there was really only one session where there would have been a potential audience, but apparently we went beyond what zoom supported and only a fraction of people were able to participate in that session. My background was never seen.
Regardless, the discussion as very good with some great internal and external speakers, including the woman that coined the term intersectionality, telling us what it means and how it came to be. There's a TED Talk that covers the same ground from a few years ago if you are interested.
Regardless, the discussion as very good with some great internal and external speakers, including the woman that coined the term intersectionality, telling us what it means and how it came to be. There's a TED Talk that covers the same ground from a few years ago if you are interested.
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- Alefroth
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Re: Intersectionality of Privilege
Just came across this- https://www.thecut.com/2022/01/im-tired ... TczDVU3rtwcoopasonic wrote: ↑Wed Jan 19, 2022 3:47 pm Is there a better modern word for teetotaler? I haven't had alcohol in more than 5 years just as a personal choice.